Don’t you sometimes wish that you’ve never met certain people in your life? Or worse-you wish that you or they were never even born. Some people just seem to spell trouble or pain. Most situations that involves them makes you think-I don’t need this shit! And you wonder if their sole purpose in life is to annoy or piss you off. You think that you were better off without them.
But are we really better off without them? I don’t think that’s always the case. These people-no matter if they seem like bitches and assholes are actually there to help shape the people that we ought to be. It’s always a choice on whether we decide to turn bitter, bitchy, mean or whatever repulsive being you could ever think of. But ultimately, if you look at it in a different perspective, they’re there to make us better people. It’s like they’re there to intimidate and challenge us to become the greatest individuals we can ever be.
(I’m not yet done. I have to go for now. I’ll continue this later on.)
2 Comments:
Hey Debs! Pam ito. Didn't know you had a blog. Its good I found you since once in a while I think about you and how you're doing. This way I have a way of looking into your world and seeing what's up with my long lost good college bud.
Reading your blogs, you sound so different from the person I knew in college. I guess philosophy classes plus real life stuff has had a good mix on your outlook in life.
The trick with reality, I think, is for one to accept it, embrace it and live it. Living not in the past nor the future but only in the now. A friend once told me that the hardest thing to do in life is to REALLY live it...I think thats true. For only in the NOW can you truly be happy. Kind of like relationships, you know you won't marry that person, so what's the point in being together now? Simple, because he or she makes you happy NOW. So you waste your time loving someone who you most likely will be breaking up with. :) It looks pessimistic, but really its a very positive outlook.
If you're ever wondering how Im doing you can visit www.chillwinston.blogspot.com - I aim to make people laugh or nod in agreement. Nothing negative. Sounds like a different me? I hope so. Take it easy debs.
hey deb :)
nice to see that your online too. this post really hit a nerve with me. that is one of my biggest problems right now, dealing with the the past and all the painful feelings it brings up in my present. but your right, i have a choice- i don't have to be bitter, pained, or insecure. thank you for your insight. i look forward to reading more of your stuff :) i'm linking you up :)
love, cat (calamansi.blogspot.com)
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